Relationships

Relationships seems to be so complicated. Why? When you are single you wish you had a partner. But when you're attached you wanna be single. And there are times when you are attached you wish that you could just break it up with your partner as she or he causes you too much headache and heartache and you will think that you are better off being without them. When it comes down to the crunch (break up) you realize that you could not live without him. You feel that your bottom half of your body has gone missing. You feel like DYING. You wished that someone could pull the trigger and end it. But is this was worth it. In 5 years down the road, you be thinking that you are DAMN DUMB. And you feel that you made a fool out of yourself and that you found out you did it, you have moved on. Sigh.

When you are in a relationship, you don't see things like an outsider does. When a friend or friends tells you what you did was wrong, and all you could do is either blast them away, give them your opinion and tell them to BUTT OUT. But then again, you don't see things out of the box like they do. When I was first going out with my bf everything was fine and dandy. But I couldn't call anyone babe which I was used too calling my friends it does not matter if it's a guy or girl. So I stopped it. Then he left to Australia for studies and the next thing was, you can't wear this top, that top, this skirt and that skirt. And I did it. Some may say I'm giving in too much, some may say I'm stupid and some may not have any opinion.

But when it comes to FLIRTING and dirty dancing it was a BIG NO NO especially when you are only going out for a year or so. So why make things more complicated than ever. If you don't want to get in to arguments then compromise. Don't do that. A friend of mine once dirty dance with a friend. And from the dance floor I could see her bf looking at her. Enough was enough, He got mad. It is normal for your man to be upset and jealous. If you were in his shoes wouldn't you be the react the same or worst? But at that time you don't see his point of view and you think that he is just being very childish.

A close friend of mine just broken up. We started to talk. But what I said meant nothing because he or she felt that I was out there to get him/her. But when you realizes it, it would have been TOO LATE.

It seems to be a bad month for relationships. Another friend of mine was in contact with this guy from Malacca. They seemed to be going out yet they were not. I know she has the heart for him. Out of the blue he told her to f**k off and that he doesn't want to see her again. And he threatened her. Such a BASTARD!. If I ever find out that he is in town, I am so going to kick his yellow arse back to where he belong. To think that he could mess with some city chicks. Boy, you are so damn wrong. Luckily he is a bastard now before they even went out together.

I wouldn't say that my relationship with my partner is blissful. I would be lying if I said so. Yes we are happy. And yes we do have our ups and downs moments. In the end, if you really want to make it work, it is all about compromising. Even if the girls that have to compromise most of the time. Sometimes I feel like I had it enough. Enough is enough. But could you just throw what you have for more than a year away just like that because he did something that was so insensitive?